News broke last night that Taylor Swift and her boyfriend of over a year Calvin Harris had called it quits, leaving fans questioning what went wrong between the pair that had previously appeared to be happy and in love.
According to some new sources, Calvin was the one who decided to call things off after feeling that their relationship was fizzling out.
“Adam really liked Taylor, she was not the type of girl he ever dates and he liked that. He liked how innocent Taylor was and that she had a good caring heart. Taylor’s heart was more in it then he was. He started to lose interest over the past few months, but really tried to not just break up,” the source tells E! News.
“They were just not very compatible in different areas in their relationship. The touring and traveling didn’t help. It seemed like they were more friends than lovers,” the source said, adding: “Taylor and Adam had very different group of friends.”
The insider also stated that Calvin: “100 percent did not cheat.”
“There were no other women involved with Adam. He did not cheat on her at all. Just not a good match.”
An additional source backed up the claim, saying: “no one cheated. There was no drama.”
“She was in Nashville with her family and they have been helping her through the break up.”
They say: “Taylor was really disappointed in Calvin and felt like he wasn’t there for her. The relationship wasn’t progressing the way she wanted it to. She felt like he wasn’t taking it seriously enough and wouldn’t come through for her when she needed him most. She felt down and like her needs weren’t being met. She doesn’t want to get back together.”
Edited to Add:
People have also reported that one of the reasons Calvin wanted to split was that he was threatened by Taylor’s success.
“[Harris] said on multiple occasions that he was intimidated by Taylor, which is why he would not attend any events where she was being honored, or any award shows unless he was nominated,” one of Taylor’s friends says.
“Taylor is an independent young woman, and she realizes it will take a very secure man to handle her success.”
Another source spoke to People on the split, saying:
“They come from very different worlds. Taylor is used to being treated a certain way.”
“It wasn’t an equal relationship. Their age difference might not be significant for many couples, but for them it was part of the problem too,” the source said. “Taylor somewhat lacks real-life experience. They will not be getting back together.”
The source added that Calvin: “very much admires her as a person and what she has been able to do with her career. This is what drew him to her in the first place.”
“She works incredibly hard for things that she believes in. He always saw that as an amazing quality. They are still friendly.”
Are you sad to see Taylor and Calvin go their separate ways?